How To Be a Heartbreaker. Group Two
Marina and the Diamonds: How To Be a Heartbreaker - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKNcuTWzTVw
Marina Diamandis creates a music video that emcompasses two of Doty’s definitions of queer: figures going against hetero-normativity, and also non-normative gender performance. Marina portrays men the way women would typically be portrayed in American society - as playful, carefree sex objects. She also portrays herself in a way that would usually be regarded positively for men, but in her case because of double standards, people view her as promiscuous (a “slut”). The video received a lot of backlash, typically for the way she portrays herself and objectifies men, yet she sings about not giving away sex to these men. However, there are hundreds of music videos that portray women as objects and glorify men for having their way with them sexually, yet they receive very little attention or scrutiny.
The definition of queer that deals with non-normative gender performance can be seen throughout the video. The men in the background are playful with Marina, but it is more noticeable when they are playful with one another. It is not often seen in media where men are playfully hitting each other in a shower. If the men are playing with one another than they are typically doing things that are perceived as more masculine. Rubbing up on each others bodies also defies normative gender. Society does not usually see men rubbing up on each other as what is considered normal. By filling the role that would be reserved for women, the video is displaying non-normative gender performance.
Rather than being praised as a strong, independent woman, she is being viewed as a hypocrite. In the comments of the Youtube video, many people have commented saying that if a man had this video they would be criticized and frowned upon, but when a woman makes a video like this one, instead of being viewed as empowering and enlightening, they are looked at as a fake feminist and are using feminism as a way to receive special treatment and to avoid backlash and criticism.
Marina’s video may be looked down upon by some feminists, men, and women because of its obvious role-reversal. In our modern society women are meant to be viewed as symbols of purity, selflessness, and an overall embodiment of motherly nature. Marina shows us that women are so much more than just these titles, and their pleasure is their own, not subject only to the desires of men. Marina makes the statement, “Girls, we don’t want our hearts to break in two, so its better to be fake…” She seems to be saying that the only way to get noticed as beyond the titles placed upon women is to be eccentric, to be over the top, and to break the mold: whether they feel comfortable or not. She seems to say that women must ask as “men” in order to not get hurt in the traditional ways that womens’ roles allow them to be.
- Do you think that Marina is taking a feminist stance by exploiting men, and portraying relationships and breakups this way? Or do you think that Marina is being hypocritical and is using feminism as a way to avoid backlash from the heteronormative standards?
- Is it right to objectify men, as society objectifies women? Why or why not? What ramifications might this have?
- In some of the YouTube comments, the commenters say that women in the media and in music videos objectify themselves. Can it be seen as self objectification? Or could we argue that the way women perform in media as forms of self-empowerment and choosing to express themselves in a different way from what is considered the norm?